I don't think it's superficial to think looks are important. Someone who is attractive will definitely catch my eye, but I have met plenty of people that aren't anything grand and I still find them attractive because of their personality.
In the end, I can honestly say that looks aren't all that matter to me when it comes to forming a relationship (friend or lover). It takes a combination of things for me to have a relationship with a person.
Thats true.........I agree........well said